We achieve a sense of self from what we do for ourselves and how we develop our capacities. If all your efforts have gone into developing others, you are bound to feel empty. TAKE YOUR TURN NOW. We can try to avoid making choices by doing nothing, but even that is a decision. You must have long-range goals to keep you from being frustrated by short-range failures. Better get a stiff neck from aiming too high than a hunch from aiming too low.
All who seek the roots of life dig in solitude for them. Stop freewheeling, get into gear, and do something with your life. There are so many avenues to explore, so why not explore them? Never be afraid to step into the unknown, into the new. Do it fearlessly, always expecting the very best as you do so.